Love this post!! Kindness is so important.


A needed reminder

I will spend time with the people I love.    No regrets.
I will realize my full potential.     No regrets.
I will let myself be happy.    No regrets!

The strength of youth – if only they knew it

The age for missionary service has changed!!  This is so wonderful and inspired.  Changes are happening, and there will be more missionaries available to teach the gospel to those who are searching for answers in their lives.

This weekend the Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-Day Saints changed the age of missionary service from 19 to 18 for young men, and from 21 to 19 years old for young women.  So many youth at these ages are ready to go and serve the Lord – what a testament to the strength and faith of LDS youth today!

I know this change is inspired.  In my work I see so many young people who have lost direction in their lives.  Near the end of high school they don’t know what to do next.  Some can’t afford college.  Some don’t think they can excel in college.  So many have doubts about themselves and their potential.  So many are out of work, out of school, and have lost self-confidence in life and the opportunities it has to offer.

But LDS youth are different.  They work towards the end of high school with a knowledge they are needed and that they can offer so much in the world.  As they forsake other interests, they go forward, often to other undeveloped countries, and serve others.  They serve for 18 months to 24 months with the sole focus of bringing others to Christ.  They learn languages that will help them in the future, and they become so thankful for the opportunities and comforts that they have.  For many it gives a new perspective about life.  They learn hard work, how to communicate effectively, and they serve God selflessly with all their hearts and souls.  When they return, they have so much more to offer themselves, their families, and society.  What a contrast to those I work with who are so lost, and who find themselves in trouble with the law because they do not know what to do with their lives or what they can accomplish.

I am so incredibly thankful for the gospel of Jesus Christ and the plan of happiness that it provides.

And she started using drugs at the age of seven

A defendant was recently sentenced to ten years in prison for her lengthy pattern of serious drug abuse and thefts.  This was not terribly unusual, however the following discourse was different, and it filled many in the court with pity and compassion.

Judge:               You understand that your bad choices have put you here.

Defendant:     Yes, your honor, I know.

Judge:               I’m sure your family is disappointed in you.

Defendant:     They are.

Judge:               How long have you been using drugs?

Defendant:     Since I was seven.

I have talked in a previous blog about the age of accountability.  Mormons believe that eight is the age when children have become aware of their choices and have sufficient self-control to make those choices.  But, what about this case?  Knowing the highly addictive nature of all drugs, when did this woman become accountable? 

The Bible speaks of a parent’s responsibility to teach children and to bring them up in the ways of light and goodness.  Because of the sin of the parents here, a child, now a grown woman, has borne a lifelong disease of darkness and bondage.  Can a child be guilty for the sin of the parents?

It seems to me that there were many stopping points along her way.  A neighbor?  A teacher?  A friend’s mom?  When should we step in and break a cycle such as this? 

Can we all commit to opening our eyes and being a little more aware of the people around us? Can we commit to an act of kindness that may make someone’s life a bit easier today?  I believe that we show our love for humanity by helping others along our way.  

You never know a life you may save.